Tributes & Condolences

Mummy Toluwase... Mummy Crown 👑 🎖️

A loving mother, a lover of Christ, a giver, a helper, a soul winner.

Thank you for giving my wife a job

Thank you for always giving us those lovely baby story books each time we gave birth.

I saw you last during the special surprise birthday for Pastor Theophilus Aholu (Higher Ground)... November 2025.

Thank you for taking time to visit us when we had our last baby Toluwanimi December 2025... I never knew that would be the very last visit... I was in the office and could only greet you over the phone.

Heaven gained a beautiful soul, we missed you.

Rest in Peace Mummy.

Dearest Stella,

Our friendship has spanned over 4 decades, you were a sweet ray of light, kind, jovial, serious when it was necessary.

My dear friend I can’t believe you have left us behind, to the best of my knowledge you were healthy when we last spoke.

I miss you,
Glad you are in a better place🕊️

With Love, Taiwo

For the period I served as the Zonal Pastor in Higher Ground Parish/Zone (2012 - 2018), she was my assistant and I found in her from day one, a pure love for our Lord Jesus Christ, and for the people of God.

I can testify that she was truly born-again, and she lived a life sold out to Matthew 28:19, the last command of the Lord, which was evidently her first concern.

I love evangelism very much, and that drew us together. She supported all evangelism programmes in the Church even with the procurement of a brand new bus for evangelism.

She was our lead for Sunday School, and taught with passion, joy, and hope. Her favorite topic was "Heavenly Rewards". She had always expressed her strong desire to receive Crowns from the Lord. Crowns of righteousness, of life, of glory, etc. Hence, she was called "Mama Crown". I've no doubt that she would receive all her crowns, IJN.

She was a virtuous woman, a great wife to her late husband, great mother to her children & grandchildren. A great mother to all in the Church as there was none in the Church she never supported.

Mummy crown was a great servant of the Lord. She spent physically, financially, spiritually and soulishly. She'd be missed but her transition is the Lord Jesus' gain. I've no doubt we shall meet at the bossom of the Lord Jesus Christ!

Praise the Lord!
Phil 1:21

Mummy as I fondly called you any time we met.You were an embodiment of love, rendering selfless service to humanity.Your way of life brought many to christ,even your lovely smile alone generated hope for the hopeless.Mummy,you will forever be in my heart. My consolation is that I know you are in the bosom of the LORD.Rest on sweet mummy Gold.Your son Bro Paul.

A Tribute in treasured Memory of Mrs Stella Toluwase.

When I got the call that told me "she had passed". I was completely broken. And each day since then it feels like I am receiving the news all over again. The sadness and the deep sense of loss have persisted. Sadly, we acknowledge that what has happened has happened and cannot be reversed. So one has no choice but to accept it.
It is just the 'Why?' and the 'Why now?' that have filled my thoughts...
I have come to the realisation that her departure from this world was beyond dying, passing on or being called away. It was a 'Taking'. The Lord took her and I believe it was at a time her garment was spotless and without wrinkle.
The Lord took her away from the cares and troubles of this world so no careless word or thought would soil her garment.

Our paths crossed some 40 years ago plus or minus a couple of years when she was posted to the Department of a Federal Ministry where I was working already. Somehow, we clicked. I cannot recall exactly how but gradually our interaction developed into more of a sister/sister relationship than that of colleagues at work.
I have no doubt Mrs 'T', as most of us in the Department fondly called her, would have remembered.
She was always quite detailed in recollections. I say this with a smile because our conversations on phone usually lasted some 70 to 80 minutes on the average. As was the case two weeks to her 'passing'.
We had talked as usual for about 90minutes. This belied for me any thoughts that the end was near.
Yes, she had voiced some recurring concerns which I said a few words of prayer over and trusted God to handle as usual because she had this special relationship with God that I often thought to myself that if the Lord had wanted a begotten daughter too, it would be a person like Mrs 'T'.
She was utterly sold out for Christ and the work of the Kingdom. She set boundaries not to be crossed in human interactions but her love for Christ was boundless. She brought Christ into every issue, every conversation. She always cited Biblical examples to support any discourse.
Our talks, whether on phone or physically always ended for me in sober reflection.
Was I measuring up like Mrs 'T', I would always ponder?
Soul winning was her passion and she did this through regular purchases and distribution of Christian literature and in particular copies of the Open Heavens Daily Devotional. She must have given out hundreds, if not thousands over time.
She never missed an opportunity to evangelize. Her desire was to win as many souls for Christ.
I am not sure of the stratification in Heaven but Mrs 'T' in all her activities and interactions always aimed for the highest mark of her calling in Christ. Her goal which was not just to make Heaven but to receive her Crown of righteousness featured in every conversation.
And for as long I knew Mrs 'T', every Wednesday was a day she set apart to wait on the Lord and seek His face.

Mrs 'T' was a loving and dutiful sister to her siblings. Very sacrificial in her support. She was very proud of their every achievement. She never ceased talking lovingly about them. I knew all their names before I got to meet or see some of them.

She was a loving mother to her children and led them very early in their lives to the way of Christ. Her grandchildren were her pride and joy.

To me she was an invaluable friend and sister. She was filled with Godly wisdom, trustworthy, reliable and dependable. A faith builder. She did not just believe. She put her faith to practice.
I remember many years back in my child bearing years. Mrs 'T' so built up my faith and trust in God and the Lord honoured Himself in my life and I got the gender we had prayed together for.
She also had divine revelations. There was a time we had mapped out a foreign two-week training programme and gotten a verbal approval. Mrs 'T' then told me a couple of days later that she had dreamt and saw that the trip would be shorter. And so it was. The written approval had reduced the time frame to 10days.
Her home at the University of Lagos Staff Quarters was where a couple of my children waited after the close of school till I got to pick them up later in the day.

There is so much to say and write about Mrs 'T' but the most important is that she was the faithful daughter of the Most High God.
Even in her trying and tough times which she bore calmly and always with a smile, her faith in God never wavered.

My dear sister and friend, Mrs 'T', though you are gone, you can never to be forgotten.
There is a flourishing leafy bitter leaf plant in full view outside my kitchen window.
On your last visit to Lagos, I had cut out a branch from your garden to plant in my house.
So whether it is when I open my kitchen louvres and see the plant or when I pluck its leaves, I will always think of you.

May the Angels of God line your path to glory. May the hosts of Heaven rejoice as you hear your 'Well done, thou good and faithful servant, enter into your heavenly rest.
You fought the good fight and finished your race. Now receive your Crown of righteousness'.

Rest in Peace my dear sister and reign in glory and may the perpetual light of God keep shining on you, Amen.

Mrs Modupe Sosanya.

Tribute to the Late Stella Biodomoye Toluwase (née Dambo)

The marriage of Stella's kid sister, Erem to my dear dashing brother-in-law, Engr Bayo Karunwi, as well as the friendship (from uni) of Dr Demola Oni, doting husband of Dr Mrs Karina Oni, Stella's immediate younger sister, with Dr Bode and his wife, Dr Mrs Laite Karunwi, laid a strong foundation for the DAMBO-KARUNWI relationship. We interacted as much and as best as we could. Tolu's wedding was one of such memories. Many more memories have followed since then.
My personal interaction with this lovely lady did not happen until I went to Port Harcourt for the burial of a much loved kid brother, a very sad occasion. Events came to the point that I had to invite her as the arrowhead of the Dambo Family to a call for prayers, for which she was extremely thankful. This went on right through the period till the successful conclusion of everything. From then on we became 'sisters' and would communicate from time to time.
The news of her sudden demise was a rude shock. I felt very much for my two sisters, Mrs Erem Karunwi and Dr Mrs Karina Oni, their spouses who all loved and respected 'Big Sis' as she was fondly called and indeed the members of their families.
'Big Sis' was a woman of dignity and beauty, always wearing a lovely smile. She was a true 'first born' who was very dutiful to their widowed mother, Mama Clarinah Dambo, now late, as well as all her siblings. My first thought was 'who's now going to be the voice of reasoning and defense for this family now that she's gone?' It is worthy of note that she rallied the family to to achieve a lot ..
Little did anyone know but known unto God are all His works. It pleased God to take her away to Himself at this time and we cannot query but in all things, we give Him thanks 🙏. Halleluiah Amen.
At this point, I greet His Excellency, Biriyai Dambo, SAN, Attorney-General and Commissioner for Justice, Bayelsa State, 'my SAN', humble, gentle and very respectful in spite of his exalted position and his amiable adorable wife, Lady Dele Dambo. I pray that God will use you to continue where Big Sis stopped. With her children, God will help each and every member of the family to carry on with the legacy of keeping the family united. So help you God. Amen.
It is very sad for me that I am unable to join you all in Abuja during this solemn period but be assured that I will always pray for your family. I pray that God will intervene in every aspect of the ceremonies including safe travels for everyone in the mighty Name of Jesus Christ. Amen and Amen 🙏.
Once again, please accept my deepest condolences but with thanksgiving to God the Almighty Father who owns us all.

Yewande Olutosin Karunwi (Mrs)
On behalf of the entire KARUNWI DYNASTY

Tribute to Mrs. Stella Biodomoye Toluwase.

From the Family of Engr and Mrs. Olatuinji E. Ajayi

My family and I write this tribute in honour of our family friend, my dear colleague, Mrs. Stella Biodomoye Toluwase, who transitioned to glory in April 2026 at the age of 69.

For many of us who had the privilege of working alongside her, she embodied professionalism with a warm, motherly touch. She was a pillar of strength, grace, and wisdom in our workplace. She carried herself with dignity and excellence, earning the respect of everyone around her.

Fondly known as “Mrs. T,” she brought a sense of family and stability into the office environment. Her wisdom, drawn from decades of experience and life’s lessons, was always available to those who sought it. She had a sense of demeanor that could brighten even the most stressful days and a gentle spirit that made her a joy to work with. As a devoted Christian, mother, grandmother, she balanced her professional life with remarkable grace - a true example of a woman of substance.

Though her physical presence is no longer with us, the legacy she leaves behind - of diligence, hard work, kindness, integrity, and faith - will continue to inspire all who knew her.

To her children, grandchildren, siblings, and the entire extended family, please accept our deepest condolences. May God grant you the strength and comfort to bear this irreparable loss.

Rest in perfect peace, Mrs. T. You ran a good Christian race and have now received your crown of glory. We will miss you dearly, but we know that you will continue to rest in the bosom of our Lord Jesus Christ.

Sleep well, Mrs. Stella Biodomoye Toluwase.

From the Family of Engr and Mrs. Olatuinji E. Ajayi

Mummy!
As I fondly call you.
You were my friend, prayer partner and my mentor.
Your simplicity and humility was what attracted me to you years back in RCCG Higher ground parish Abuja.
I did not even know your status as at then. All I knew then was that I admire a beautiful daughter of zion who was aging gracefully and also the way you carry yourself.
You brought comfort and hope to many people like me as at then.
-- The jobless
-- Hungry
--The homeless
-- The naked
-- The weary
-- Ministers of the lord , to mention but a few
All benefited from you.
- Hardly anyone who came your way that you did not touch their lives.
-- You passion for souls and missionary fields was second to noon.
Adiue ! Adiue!! Adiue!!!
-- The Dorcas of our time.
-- A Mother of nation
-- A soldier of the cross of Jesus Christ
-- A Warrior
-- A scavenger for souls
-- A general
I will for ever cherish the day I met you and the moments I shared with you.
-- You will be greatly missed by me and my family.
Mummy, Mummy, continue to rest in the bossom of the lord God almighty till we meet to part no more
at that glorious morning.

DCN Mercy Aigbekaen J.

Stella my friend and sister from another mother. We met in a joint Christian Fellowship , Unilag in 1980. It is still unbelievable that you are no longer here. Our recent phone conversation still linger in my head. Indeed your faith reflected in all your actions. The times we shared were always memorable. Stella lived a life of contentment. Indeed your legacy lives on. I and my family missed you. Rest on till we meet to part no more. 1Timothy 6:6-7.
Adieu Aburo,

The news of your demise Stella, came as a rude shock on our Federal School of Arts and Science, Ogoja Alumni platform. I recall our friendship those days and how we used to travel by rail back to our homes in Aba and yours in Port Harcourt. You were vibrant, athletic, friendly and always said your mind. Over the years life happened to all of us and we lost touch. I will always remember the reminiscent of our youthful Higher School days in Ogoja. I send my heartfelt condolences to your family, friends and associates. May your dear soul rest in perfect peace and may God comfort and grant your family the fortitude to bear this irreparable loss. Amen!

Proverbs 10:7 “The memory of the just is blessed.”

I remember all you were to me your motherly care, your advice, and how you always told me that salvation is an individual race, that I shouldn’t depend on what others are doing and remain focused.

Even when people called you names, it never stopped you from doing good. You forgave, you prayed for people, and you still showed love.

You told me I’m now your son, and you truly treated me like one. You made me a better person… though I’m still a work in progress. I keep holding on to our last conversation, praying it stays with me and keeps guiding me.

You have sown so many good seeds. It pains me that some of the plans I had with you didn’t come to pass. Sometimes I still wake up at night thinking maybe it’s all a prank… just waiting for your call: “Glory, I’m coming to Lagos next week.”

But I believe you’re smiling now, resting, wearing your crown in heaven that was always your goal. “Henceforth there is laid up for me a crown of righteousness…” 2 Timothy 4:8

I just want everyone to learn from you. Even when you don’t have, even when it’s hard, try to do good. Try to make someone smile. There is always a reward.

You’ve done your part, and we truly miss you.

Good night, Mum… till we meet again.

Your son, Glory Toluwase

Tribute to my dear Mother in law
It's difficult to believe that you have left us. I was tempted to ask our Father in heaven why but I held back because I remember you always talking about your crown in heaven. I remember you always talking to everyone around you about the heavenly race and the crowns to be won if we are faithful. It was all about Jesus for you. I am grateful that my time with you was very impactful. You had words of encouragement for me always. You were very quick to recognise that my twin sister and I looked out for each very much and you also extended that love you showed to me to my sister. She told me how you called her this year and spoke with her for a long time. We didn't know you were bidding us goodbye. It's very painful to know that we can't see you or talk with again for now but we are grateful that your life was well spent in the service of the Lord God Almighty, your maker whom you loved so much. I will miss your welcoming smile and hospitality. We lost you but heaven gained you. Rest on my dear Mama until we see to part no more.
Toluwase Ijeoma
Daughter in law

Tribute to Mrs. Stella Biodomoye Toluwase.
From the Family of Engr and Mrs. Olatuinji E. Ajayi

My family and I write this tribute in honour of our family friend, my dear colleague, Mrs. Stella Biodomoye Toluwase, who transitioned to glory in April 2026 at the age of 69.
For many of us who had the privilege of working alongside her, she embodied professionalism with a warm, motherly touch. She was a pillar of strength, grace, and wisdom in our workplace. She carried herself with dignity and excellence, earning the respect of everyone around her.
Fondly known as “Mrs. T,” she brought a sense of family and stability into the office environment. Her wisdom, drawn from decades of experience and life’s lessons, was always available to those who sought it. She had a sense of demeanor that could brighten even the most stressful days and a gentle spirit that made her a joy to work with. As a devoted Christian, mother, grandmother, she balanced her professional life with remarkable grace - a true example of a woman of substance.
Though her physical presence is no longer with us, the legacy she leaves behind - of diligence, hard work, kindness, integrity, and faith - will continue to inspire all who knew her.
To her children, grandchildren, siblings, and the entire extended family, please accept our deepest condolences. May God grant you the strength and comfort to bear this irreparable loss.
Rest in perfect peace, Mrs. T. You ran a good Christian race and have now received your crown of glory. We will miss you dearly, but we know that you will continue to rest in the bosom of our Lord Jesus Christ.
Sleep well, Mrs. Stella Biodomoye Toluwase.
From the Family of Engr and Mrs. Olatuinji E. Ajayi

Words cannot describe the loss I feel saying farewell to you.

You were particularly close right from the late 60's when we started knowingly relating with each other. Your life was a blessing, your memory a treasure. You are loved beyond words and missed beyond measure.

Your death came as a rude shock. We were not prepared for the news.

I treasure your visit with your daughter and grand children to me in Abuja when I returned to Nigeria from treatment abroad in 2023. Your courtesy visits to our household in Port Harcourt whenever you were in the state were highly appreciated. These memories linger on.

It is hard to say goodbye to a beloved sister. I miss you. We miss you. Our family is incomplete without you. Being a devout Christian that you were, we take solace on the premise that you are resting in the bosom of the Lord.


Dr. Uriel Famokuma Dambo

"For to me, to live is Christ and to die is gain " ( philippians 1:21).
At first I thought that it was a dream and that I will soon wake up. But it is no more a dream. The news of your departure made me cry like a baby because it was a big shock. Few weeks to that day you called me in the mission field in Ghana and as usual we talked for more than an about the work of the kingdom. You encouraged me as usual to hold fast to the work of Him that called me. I did not know that it was going to be the last time I was going to hear my dear Sister's voice. You were a big pillar to us in the mission field. You lived all your life for the kingdom of God. I can testify to this after working with you for more than 30 years in the work of God. You were after soul winning and making sure that the widows and orphans were not left out.
Your love for me and my family was much more than the love between David and Jonathan in the Bible. You were a darling sister anymore could have.
You will be greatly missed is an understatement. My joy is that we shall meet together again. May the Lord give us grace to hold on to the end.
Rest in peace in His bosom. We love you but God loves you more.

Pastor Enejeta Odhoma Ilolo and family.

May the Lord rest your soul and divinely comfort your family.

TRIBUTE TO OUR BELOVED BIG SISI STELLA

It has been incredibly difficult to put these words together… it still feels unreal that it has come to this—a tribute to our Big Sis. We truly did not see this coming. As our Big Sis, you were allowed to be unwell… but never to leave us this way.

Yet even in our deep sorrow, we have so much to thank the Lord for.

The greatest gift you gave to me—to all of us—was Jesus. You modeled Christ in a way that was consistent, intentional, and deeply impactful for as long as I have known you. You paved the way, you prepared me, you nurtured me… until I made the decision to become a “Jesus girl.”

Thank you, Big Sis dearest. Because of you, I am who I am today—and by God’s grace, I will continue to serve the Lord, along with my household.

We have so many beautiful memories together. You were a woman of your word—the glue that held this family together. When you spoke, we listened… and we aligned. That was the weight of your wisdom and the grace you carried.

Your wisdom was extraordinary—truly the wisdom of a first daughter. When our mum passed, we all turned to you and said, “Big Sis, you are now our mummy.” And you stepped into those shoes so beautifully, so selflessly, so completely. We missed Mum deeply… and we still do. And now, the Lord in His wisdom has called you home too.

Our hearts ache… but we remain grateful. Grateful for the gift of you. Grateful for the years we shared. Grateful for the beautiful memories that will forever live in our hearts.

Big Sis dearest, you will always live on in us. We love you deeply—words will never be enough.

You taught me and my family so much—things we now hold as part of our daily lives: family devotions, praying before stepping out, praying in the car… all from your loving guidance and example.

You also shared a special and unique bond with all our girls. They cherished you deeply. They never tired of your “gist”—from Jesus conversations to intellectual discussions and life advice. I watched them listen so attentively, soaking in every word. They loved spending time with you… especially those shopping trips with BIG SISI 😊.

Ah, Big Sis and shopping—
one required a PhD in patience!
You were so meticulous, taking your time with every choice… and the girls were always happy to wait, chatting, laughing, offering ideas—because that time with you was what mattered most.

We all miss you so much, Big Sis dearest. The pain is real, and the void is deep. But we take comfort in knowing that Daddy Jesus has you now. And even in our grief, we feel His love surrounding us, carrying us, holding us close.

So we rest… in His comfort, in His promise, and in the assurance that you are with Him.

Precious in the sight of the Lord is the death of His saints.” – Psalm 116:15

Until we meet again.

Lots of love
Bayo , Erem Karunwi and Family

Tribute to my sister and friend.

I write this with tears and shock. Oh! How soon you left us. How about our movement and plans Eh. You taught me so many things about the word of God whenever we are together. You are so caring, loving, and willing to listen. I cry no more because I know where you are, the daughter of Zion .
Heaven has gained while I have lost. It is well. Sleep well my sister and friend, till we meet to part no more. I'm short of words. Adieu Sister.

The Family of Mrs Stella Toluwase

CONDOLENCE MESSAGE

Stella and I were good friends growing up in Port Harcourt in the 70’s. Several of us spent our teenage years hanging out, Jolly, and Matilda Abrakasa , Stella and Karina Dambo, and Ngo and Aleruchi Wachuku
After Secondary School, we all moved on in search of higher education and greener pastures and lost touch with each other.

In the last quarter of 2024 I received a call from Stella who was on a visit to Port Harcourt and we reconnected. Amazing how we hit it off, arranged luncheon get togethers, and started to catch up on old times. She informed me that her immediate plan was to relocate to Port Harcourt as soon as the Family Home at Nembe Close, Rumuibekwe was rebuilt.
Stella was particularly pleased that she had a good friend in the City she could relate with after being away for so long and we both looked forward to many years of continued friendship .

Stella attended the 20th Memorial Thanksgiving of my late husband, Arc Roland Cookey-Gam on 27th December 2025. We spoke a couple of times in 2026, I was therefore shocked and deeply saddened by her demise.

Life is ephemeral, so fleeting, and as Elton John accurately described it in his song, is like a “Candle in the Wind”. These were my precise thoughts when I heard of the sudden demise of my dear friend.

A beautiful and caring soul who loved the Lord so dearly has been called home. She will be sorely missed by her children and Family. May her gentle soul rest in peace.

Dame Aleruchi Cookey-Gam

Rest in Peace my dear friend!
There are no words to describe the shock of the unexpected passing of Stella. I first met her in the mid-70s at the Federal School of Arts and Science, Ogoja. Though our academic pursuits were in different higher education institutions, our parts crossed again during our service with the Federal Government of Nigeria in Lagos and Abuja. Our friendship grew over the years, and we often shared work and life experiences. Stella was a kind and compassionate Christian woman.
More than anything, I’ll miss her vivacious nature and vibrant energy. We take comfort in knowing that her soul is now at peace, and her legacy of compassion and high spirits will continue to inspire us all. I offer my heartfelt sympathy to her family - " Do not be grieved, for the joy of the Lord is your strength!"

My virtuous and visionary Mum, it really pained me when I heard you had transitioned to glory. You were a constant source of love, strength and encouragement to me and your impact in my life both physically and spiritually remains profound.

Dear "Mummy Crown" as you are fondly called, your love and gentle guidance will live on in my heart forever. Though you may be gone, the memories of your benevolent attitude in making sure we are deeply rooted in the things and ways of God and also gather many "Golden Crowns" when we get to heaven will always stay with me.

May your loving, sweet, beautiful soul continue to rest in the bosom of the Lord till the resurrection morning were we meet to part no more.
Adieu.
My beautiful Pastor (Mrs.) Toluwase
My "Mummy Crown"
My Lioness
My Fashionista.

Sister Anietie
NESREA, Calabar
Cross River State.

It is said the "we grieve because we loved." How true!
Stella is my twin sister because I cannot remember a time in my life without Stella in it. From our Surulere days through Kirikiri, Ikoyi, Port Harcourt, Ogoja and back to Lagos, we were together. From Ideal Girls' School (Yellow Fever School) to St. Mary's Convent School, to Lagos Anglican Girls' Grammar School to Federal School of Arts and Science (Ogoja) to University of Lagos, we were together. Marriage took us on different paths and to different countries, but did not break the cord of sisterhood. Stella was always the standard bearer, the protector and the visionary - always wise beyond her years. No matter the challenges I faced, I could rest in the knowledge that I was an overcomer because Stella was covering me in prayer. As a prayer warrior, she prayed, not only for her family and her friends, but also for her country and the world.
Her faith in the Lord Jesus was unshakable and absolute.
Her pride in her children, grandchildren , siblings and extended family knew no bounds.
She leaves behind an enviable legacy and I thank God for her life for it is a life well-lived.
Rest in perfect peace, my dear sister, until we meet again.

TRIBUTE TO MY SENIOR SISTER
MRS. STELLA BIODOMOYE TOLUWASE (NEE DAMBO)

It is hard to say goodbye Stella, your death came as a rude shock to me.

Your death is unbelievable but true. You were a dutiful wife, successful mother, Pastor and many more, what comes to my mind now is the eternal words of the great American Actress, Singer and Playwright - Mae West who stated thus:
"You only live once but if you do it right, once is enough"

For Stella, life was about living right, finding the right balance and leaving the right footprints wherever one finds oneself.

Stella was a firm believer in our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ. She lived a life of service both to God and Man. She was never ashamed of preaching the Gospel of Jesus Christ anywhere, anytime and to anyone.

As Mae West said; Stella Biodomoye Toluwase (nee Dambo) graced our planet for once April 1957 - April 2026 and by all standards of human measurement she did it right and to us her family and friends that once is enough.

Adieu My Senior Sister.

May you rest in perfect peace in the bosom of your Creator until we meet to part no more.

Hon. Justice M. A. Ayemieye
Chief Judge of Bayelsa State

Good Night!

God was Good in, through and to you!

You shined as a light with.the Goodness of God that you had! I experienced it and bear witness.

Rest and Drink deep and Satisfsctorily, the love of God!

You loved Him, and Now He has you with Him!

Enjoy your Eternity with God!
Forever saying your favorite quote "Praise The Lord Jesus Christ" at His throne
Good Night Mummy Toluwase!

We celebrate the remarkable life of our beloved mother, Mrs. Stella Toluwase—a woman whose love, wisdom, and strength shaped everyone blessed to know her. Her guidance uplifted us, her warmth brightened our days, and her unwavering values became the foundation upon which we stand. Though she has departed this world, her legacy endures in the lives she touched, the lessons she imparted, and the countless memories we will forever cherish.

We honor her not in sorrow alone, but with deep gratitude for a life so beautifully lived. Her spirit lives on within us, inspiring us to strive, to serve, and to love as she did. May her gentle soul rest in eternal peace, and may her light continue to shine in our hearts.

You will live on in our lives forever!

For 57 years, we shared a bond that feels impossible to capture fully in words –a friendship that began in childhood and grew into something deeper than even sisterhood. We were just twelve years when our lives changed forever on the same day in January 1970 when we both walked down the aisle during a Scripture Union meeting to accept Jesus Christ as our Lord and Savior. She was never just a friend to me. She was my sister in every way that mattered. We grew up side by side, learning, laughing, stumbling and finding our way, always knowing the other was there. We spent seven years together at Anglican Girls Grammar School and Federal School of Arts And Science, Ogoja. However, life took us through seasons of change as it carried us in different directions. Time stretched, distance grew and we lost touch. As God would have it, after all those years, we found our way back to each other.
She had a way of making the world gentler. Her faith was not just something she spoke about. It was something she lived, quietly and consistently in how she loved others, how she showed up whenever she was needed. I remember how she encouraged and supported me during the loss of my sister 39 years ago. She reminded me again and again what it meant to trust, to hope and to endure.
Fifty-seven years is a lifetime of memories- too many to count, too precious to lose. I carry them with me now; the laughter that echoed through our younger days, the long conversations about boys, future careers and husbands at Anglican, Ogaja and in her dormitory room at Unilag, the shared prayers, the comfort will never be forgotten.
Losing her leaves a space that cannot be filled, but it also leaves a legacy that cannot be taken away. Though I miss her deeply, I hold onto the hope we first embraced together at age twelve that this is not the end of our story. Until we meet again at Jesus’ feet, my dear friend, my sister, you remain forever in my heart. Rest in peace.

Tribute to Our Beloved Big Sis

Today, my family and I honor the beautiful life of our dearly beloved Aunty—our Big Sis—a woman whose life was rooted in God’s Word and Love, guided by faith, and anchored in truth.

Big Sis was more than just an aunt; she was a pillar of strength, a mentor, and a spiritual guide to all who were blessed to know her. She lived as a true reflection of God’s Word—not only in what she said, but in how she loved, how she gave, and how she carried herself every day.

Through every season, whether in times of trial or triumph, she remained steadfast, trusting God completely. She showed us that faith is not merely spoken, but lived out courageously and consistently.

She was honest, compassionate, and full of grace. Her words and prayers brought comfort and peace.

We will miss you deeply, Big Sis—especially those calls you made when you arrived in Port Harcourt, asking us to come over with the children. Those moments will forever remain in our hearts.

Though we grieve, we are comforted knowing you have fought a good fight, finished your race, and received your crown.

Rest well, Big Sis.
You will forever be in our hearts.

With love,
Wale, Meremu, Damilola, and Tobilola

TRIBUTE TO OUR 'MUM OF LIFE'

“FOR ME TO LIVE IS CHRIST, AND TO DIE IS GAIN”(Phil 1v21)


For her to live… was Christ.
Not church on Sunday. Christ daily, Christ in her Bible, pages filled with tears and prayers.
Christ in a pot of soup stretched to feed one more child that wasn’t hers by birth. Christ in counsel given to young couples, in intercession for marriages, in hands that served without applause.

Her home was not a house. It was an altar where young people found direction, where confused hearts found clarity, She didn’t just preach Christ, she lived Him. Loudly, consistently. until her last breath.

And to die… is gain.
So on the day heaven called , it was not a loss. It was a promotion.
Gain, because the devotions are now face to face. Gain, because the Saviour she sang to in the dark is now the Light she sees.
Gain because the race she ran with worn knees is now a crown she wears. Gain, because the “well done” she hoped for is the “welcome home” she heard.

We weep, not as those without hope. We weep because the room is emptier, the church is quieter, the covering is lifted. But we also rejoice. Because for her, to be absent from the body is to be present with the Lord.

69 years of Christ.
And now, eternity of gain.

Good night mummy. We will forever cherish the moments we shared together.

Love from Tayo, Funke & the Children (Adejugbe)

Today, I join the rest of the Dambo and Toluwase families to celebrate you, Madam Stella Biodomoye Toluwase, as a truly remarkable woman whose presence had brought warmth, strength, and joy into both families and beyond.

You have indeed demonstrated a beautiful way of bringing people together, creating harmony where it mattered most. Your compassion, patience, and quiet strength will not go unnoticed - they will be felt deeply by those you have had encounters with.

Today, we remember your life and times here on Earth, with gratitude to God for who you were and all that you represented. May your gentle soul rest in peace in the bosom of our Lord, until the parousia.

SB as I fondly call her was not only a colleague but also a friend, sister, counselor and a Confidant .
I first met Stella then Miss Dambo, at the Federal Ministry of Transport on no:1 Joseph street Marina Lagos sometime late August 1982, when she reported for duty as a planning officer 11 in the National Transport Coordinating Commission NTCC, I and my other colleagues had reported 10 days earlier.but I was the only one in the set of 3 given office on Joseph street.Others had their Office at 216 Broad street . She had to rely on me for information and assistance in her assumption of duty formalities. As there was no immediate office allocated to her, she had to share the same office and table with me.
Having confided in me that she was at the peak of her preparation for her wedding, I was left with the task of finishing up her documentation when she left for her native town Nembe ,a few day later. When she finally resumed at the office after her wedding ,Mrs Tawose and I realize we now belong to the same church, Christian Pentecostal Mission CPM..This really cemented our friendship.. From that time on SBand I became so close that she virtually knew almost everything about me and I knew almost everything about her. We knew each other's family brothers sisters mother without physically meeting all or any. Our closeness continued throughout our service years.
Stella was my consultant and counsellor when I was to marry She had a say on who I eventually married.
In year 2002 when we attended the US Merchant Marine Academy King point New York, I did not have a dollar to spend, Stella shared with me money sent to her by her sister Dr Karina .
Stella was a brilliant,,courageous ,no nonsense Officer .A loving ,caring and considerate colleague A reliable and dependable friend
SB your departure left tears and heartbreak in me and my Wife whom you call "My Happiness " Goodnight my sister , see you in the morning.!

Stella my friend and sister from another mother. We met in a joint Christian Fellowship , Unilag in 1980. It is still unbelievable that you are no longer here. Our recent phone conversation still linger in my head. Indeed your faith reflected in all your actions. The times we shared were always memorable. Stella lived a life of contentment. Indeed your legacy lives on. I and my family missed you. Rest on till we meet to part no more. 1Timothy 6:6-7.
Adieu Aburo,

Mummy Crown! This one hit me hard. I am grateful for the life you lived and the lives you touched. Though you are no longer here, the standard you set for how we treat each other stays with me. Rest well, Ma. Thank you for choosing to be good to me when you didn't have to.

My friend and big sister. You brought so much light,laughter and love into my life. The memories we shared are treasures I will hold forever. Thank for your wise counsels,support, encouragement and prayers. You are deeply missed. The good Lord comfort your loving children and grandchildren. Rest in peace Ma.

**AN AMAZING WOMAN OF GOD, MRS STELLA BIODOMOYE TOLUWASE(NEE- DAMBO* ).

My dear big cousin, I have been struggling to put words together. Never in my wildest dream did I think I would be writing this to you so soon in life. This to me is not a tribute but an appreciation letter to the lovely Mrs Stella Biodomoye Toluwase( Nee- Dambo).

Thank you for all you do for making yourself available for God to use in giving me a job and been instrumental to my wife's job and many others in the family, and friends. You were a woman to look up to at all times, caring, ever loving, strong, bold, always selfless, not just to family but to those around you. You were always encouraging me and never wanted me to give up. I have learnt so much from you and there was so much more to learn from your beautiful life. You were indeed a good godly woman.

It was with deep pain in my heart that i received the news of your passing on. Words still fail me in expressing the depth of my grieve over your departure. I wish i knew about your failing health situation so i would have joined you in prayer for healing, God knows best. Consolation is drawn from God through the ministry of the Holy Spirit and the blessed promises of our Lord Jesus Christ. We know that the death of a Christian is not a tragic end, but the beginning of a new life where glorious promises are fulfilled " For to me to live is Christ, and to die is gain" Philippians 1:21

Death stings, but it hold no power over a righteous soul, sister Stella my dear cousin you are RIGHTEOUS. In the end, we shall ask " O Death where is your sting! O Grave, where is your Victory? But thanks be to God, who gives us the victory through our Lord Jesus Christ. 1 Corinthians 15:55, 57. For surely you shall rise again unto eternal glory.

I, my wife and children Love you, THANK YOU SO MUCH for being there for us at all times.

A Tribute to a Dear Mother .

In a place that was once unfamiliar, God, in His divine wisdom, planted a rare gem—a mother not by blood, but by grace. You came into my life when the land felt strange, yet your presence brought warmth, belonging, and the unmistakable love of Christ.

You were more than a woman—you were a true servant of God, wholly devoted to His work and His people. Your life was a living testimony of faith, humility, and unwavering commitment to the Kingdom. Every step you took, every word you spoke, reflected a heart that was constantly mindful of heaven, ever conscious of the crown that awaits the faithful.

You gave so freely—your time, your strength, your resources, and most importantly, your love. You were a pillar to many, always watching out for others, always ready to lift, to encourage, and to stand in the gap. In a world where many seek their own, you chose the path of selflessness, embodying the true essence of Christ.

To me, you became family when I needed it most—a mother who guides her daughter in the path of truth.Your kindness built bridges where there were none, and your prayers covered me in ways words cannot fully express. Through you, I experienced the tangible love of God.

Though words may never fully capture the depth of your impact, one truth remains certain: your labor in the Lord is not in vain. Heaven bears witness to your sacrifices, and your crown of glory is sure.

Thank you for being a vessel of God’s love, a beacon of light, and a mother to many. Your legacy lives on in every life you touched, including mine.

You will always be remembered with love, honor, and deep gratitude.

Rest well, faithful daughter of God. Your crown awaits you.

Mrs Kemi Ogunwale.
Former Member
RCCG Higher Ground , Abuja

You were there recently just for me on my big day. I almost didn't miss my Mum your bestie( Cousin ) because you were everywhere representing well Aunty. I know you are in a better place right now. We can't question God but we give God the glory for been part of our lives. Thank you for your prayers, counsel and leading us to christ at a more tender age. I love the way you love God . You will forever be in our hearts Aunty . We love you but God loves you more. You will always be in our hearts. ❤️🙏.

Tribute to My Big Sister

"Big Sister", as you were called by every member of the family, wasn’t just a big Sister to me; you acted like the mum in our house. You carried that role with so much love. You were kind and made sure that I am blessed both financially and materially whenever I come around. You
were always concerned about my wellbeing. If I was quiet, you noticed, if I was hungry you noticed and fixed it. Everybody took me as your PA because whenever you are coming to PH you always call me to tell me so I could be with you or you tell the other members of the family to let me know that you are coming so I could prepare myself for the journey. My coordinator in my office and my pastor are aware. I will really miss you. Your demise have indeed created a vacuum. Your death came as a rude shock, I wish you would come back. PH will be boring without you. You told me that we will be together after my retirement. Please where are you?
Yes you were strict but it was for our good and you don't like negativity around you even if it's a film. You loved God so much, and always talked about heaven and receiving your crowns. Kai we never expected it now. Heaven has gained a soul. You will be forever remembered. It is very hard to say goodnight till we meet again to part no more.

My dearest big Sis, like I always called you, my adviser, friend, mother and a sweet big Sis, oh, it's so painful writing this tribute at this time. Infact I can't believe it. It's so painful! Oh my God! You were always there for me, always calling me, Tennnnte, I am around o, when are you coming? Or is it when you usually send for me to advise me on so many things concerning my job, health and marriage. You have always been a big sis and mum to me. You always say that my early life in marriage was like yours.

Oh! Who will always ask me those questions that only you observe and noticed about me and also pray together about. You always advise me to keep praying for my family by calling out their names.

Jesus! This is so hard and painful!!! Infact I have a lot to say about you but there's no enough space.

But you know what? I am so glad that you have gone to be with the Lord. Cos you always say if only you could see a glimpse of heaven that you will just jump inside.

Rest on my dearest big Sisi. You will always be remembered. Always.

Our beloved big sis, as I'm typing this tribute my hands are shaking uncontrollable, I can't believe it's you I'm writing it for, but whom am I to question God, for only Him knows better.
You were so much more than an aunt, you performed your duties more than a second mother, not to only me but to the entire family, even to strangers. You remain our role model forever🙏
Big sis, you were a pillar of strength, always putting others before yourself. While on service, those you gave uncountable job opportunities to both family and none family members, indeed your heart is made of gold, you were a rare gem and we are SUPER proud of you. You came, you finished well, you conquer and you made Heaven, weldon my beautiful auntie.
The first thing my kids asked me, mummy, who will be giving us open Heaven again, I couldn't help myself at that moment, the tears started flowing down my cheeks again 😭 it's shows how dedicated you were to God Almighty and how you love people.
You're indeed a mother figure who beat a child with the left hand, and drag that same child back with your right hand. Who will be calling me 'First Lady" oh Ayeba 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 it hurts, it hurts, it's really hurts😭💔
Thanks for those lovely advice and words of encouragement you gave me while on our way from Nembe, not forgetting the books you always gave me to read, includes Open Heaven, that is a legacy I will always carry forward in remembering you.
We honor you today, not just for who you are, but for the love you gave us, where the center cannot part. We will never forget your gentle smiles, the gists, the TALKS, we will really miss all that 💔
Though you gone, but you will never be forgotten, you will always remain ever green in our hearts 💚
Rest on my beautiful kind-hearted auntie, please tell mummy I miss her so much 😭
I LOVE YOU BOTH AND WILL FOREVER MISS YOU 💔😭

I love you grandma❤️💐

She was the nicest person I have ever met. Thanks for loving me and I appreciate you so much and thank you for the Bible books. I love you so much ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🤗🤗💕💕💕💕😘😘😘😘🥰🥰😍😍🥹🥹🥹🥰🥰🥰🥰😍

I’m so grateful I got to be loved by you. Your warmth, your kindness, and the way you welcomed me will always stay with me.

I’ll miss all your gists,the laughter, the stories, the way you could light up any moment just by being you. It still feels unreal that you’re no longer here.

I’m sure you’re already gisting with the angels and filling heaven with laughter.

Keep resting in peace, grandma. You are deeply missed and forever loved. 🤍